Devon - posted on 06/14/2009 ( 88 moms have responded )
I got a letter in the mail a couple of day's ago that told me i have a right to request an annual meeting for child support. since i haven't had one since 2003, i am requesting one because i know that my kids father is making alot more now then 8 dollars an hour.
anyway, my one friend is friends with my ex's brother's who one of there girlfriend's called my friend and was telling him that she talk's to my ex here and there and he is always asking about my kids and all this other stuff (because she is on my friends list on myspace) but was telling her that he doesn't want to see them because he doesn't want to complicate stuff, which i know he means that he doesn't want to complicate things between me and my boyfriend of 6 years. i think that is stupid, people do it everyday and they are in different relationships.
my dilemma is that once i get my court date for the child support i am afraid that if he shows up (because last time we had to go he faxed all his stuff over instead of coming in person), that when we are done with the meeting that he is going to try to ask me if he can see them. and i have gaven him ton's of chances to see them and he blew it everytime. he hasn't seen them in about 4 years now. so i don't know if he would happen to ask me that if i should let him or if i should just tell him that if he wants to see his kids then he can take me to court and then i will try to get supervised visitation????? i don't know what to do??? if anyone has answers or comments, i would appreciate them :)