Heather - posted on 09/01/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )
2 of my girls got in a bit of trouble today, so I gave them a spanking with my hand on their bottom, my middle daughter did just fine, no big deal. It turned red then went away. But my oldest, BRUISED. I have no idea how either. I mean yes I swatted her but it wasn't with excessive force or anything. I'm always careful. Could it he cause her skin is so much more fare? She is a red head, and I'm wondering if that could be why. I feel horrible and am lost as to what to think. Please don't bash. I'm not abusive they almost NEVER get spankings and now I'm positive that they probably never will again. Any advice?