Hollie - posted on 12/13/2011 ( 28 moms have responded )
So if a Mom doesn't have custody and has 50/50 joint custody and the child lives with their dad is SHE bad BAD mom? Read this in another community and quite frankly I disagree, my very own cousin (female) doesnt have her 2 kids living with her only because she had NO JOB when her husband decided to leave up and leave, she tried to get the my 2 nephews but police said its 50/50 custody in a marriage (the kids are jointly owned) she has to wait to divorce court. whoever filed etc...My cousin doesn't Smoke pot (do drugs) not an alcoholic etc...she does her parenting time and keeps down a job (now) and pays support. We used to be room mates while going through all of this I wasn't in a predictament to financially take on the kids sadly, but did what i could. So others said that is BAD mom and a mom who doesnt have custody is frowned upon in bad lighting, what do u think?