disrespectful adult children that threaten you n put mother down

Loren - posted on 06/22/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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After a screaming match I told Adult son and his girl to leave my home I wanted to call the authorities on her after she threatened me and put me down I don't think I'm wrong, his fault no ones has respect for me cause he doesn't, I should press charges

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 06/23/2014

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What charges would you press? At most, you could perhaps request a restraining order against the person who threatened you.

How about you have a visit with your son and explain appropriate behaviour in your home, and until he can respect that, continue to only meet him in public.

Norma - posted on 06/22/2014

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at the age of your son,relations can be difficult at best ,depending on the influences in earlier child-hood...try to reason with him,tell him hat you love him and care about him...but that he must understand what you are going through,let him stand in your shoes..BUT,also let him know that you will not let your-self be abused and " run over~~"and he will tell his girlf-friend~~but if it keeps up,talk to a real mental health professional,about geting a restraining order. Very best of luck mom

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Loren - posted on 06/23/2014

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Shawnn Lively I should have said signed a complaint, I have tried to speak to my son alone even, doesn't work, they come into my face, no lie almost touching my nose, I through her out told her she is not welcomed here again, my son followed when he worked she stayed in room all day did noting than went out when he came home..I was doing my son a favor to get himself on his feet, not her, he brought her here. asked her to do something she says she doesn't have to.. they did what they wanted, I live in a senior complex there are rules to go by, example, no washing clothes pass 8, well they would wash at 12am, she was home all day, they're gone, I dont want him bringing her here at all...... all I have to do is get my son to get his belongings out of here and hers, also to change his address...i was called many names even the C word, I called her an immature Batch, a freeloader...

Loren - posted on 06/22/2014

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Thanks Norma Beltane, I have tried to talk to him privately, his girl always butts in, answers for him, she does nothing here even when he's at work, she pays nothing, I only said I would help him and she can stay at her families where her 2 little boys are staying. she has been the only one of my boys friends I never got along with nor do I like at this time almost a yr. shes going on 23 no job no car, they pay nothing here, he's 33...I'm done even though it hurts..I live alone and and am perfectly happy with that, she throws that up to my face, saying no one wants to be with me.... I can't have company with them here, who would want to come, my winter and holidays were messed up for having them coming and going, I refuse to have my summer messed up...they say I'm the evil one, they trashed me on FB, I than allowed him to come back...I'm tired and worn out, I don't have much to live for, let me live happy the last part of my life, I did my job as a Mother, but yet was still there for them, they were never here for me

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