Theresa - posted on 11/16/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
My stepson has had major issues that have never been dealt with. His mom left when he was 2, is back in his life off and on but is very self centered. My husband and I have been together since my stepson was 12. My husband has parented out of guilt, Never any rules, boundaries or consequences that he ever stuck to. His son just got out of prison for the 2nd time and while in, he wrote his dad and told him that he needed to choose between him or me. He wrote me 2 very distasteful, disrespectful letters while in even tho I had no contact with him. Daddy will not stop defending him and I cannot get him to see that he is only handicapping his son. I don't see it ever changing. I have a 12 year old grandson who is more mature that this 30 year old.