Katie - posted on 08/29/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
I have a 13 yr old and a 15 yr old. Both girls. My 13 year old is sweet, easy going and very laid back. My 15 year old is a nightmare. She expects me to let her do unrealistic things ( for example: go out at 10:30 at night on a school night and stay out till 12) and when I tell her no she turns nasty and evil. She tells everyone I am an alcoholic because I might have a few drinks with the neighbors or sit out on the back deck and have a drink. She tells me she hates me that I am an idiot. She says she has no respect for me and that my fiancé doesn't love me and that I'm pathetic. She calls my mother who doesn't get along with my fiancé and tell her bad things about him or me. She calls her dad and tells him that I'm an alcoholic and a horrible mother. And this all happens just from me telling her no one time. But, if I say yes she is sweet as can be and tells me she loves me. I've had it with her attitude. I can't go on like this. What happened to my little angel? Does anyone have any advice? I'm so tired of fighting with her.