Disrespectful Step Kids

Sharon - posted on 01/04/2015 ( 6 moms have responded )

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I have 2 step boys who r 14 n a half dey always have sumthing 2 say back when i tell dem 2 clean up r dey not goin outside n dey momble under der breath luke i cant hear dem i have 5 kids of my own n dey r grown n i rise dem by myslelf n dey NEVER talked back 2 me some one please help b 4 i break one r both of dey jaw thank u MRS. DEPRESS

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Michelle - posted on 01/14/2015

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I'm sorry but I have tried to read your reply and it's even worse than your original post.
Can you please write properly so we can understand what you're actually asking.

Sharon - posted on 01/13/2015

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I am married 2 my stepsons father going on 2 years now but have been with him n da boys since dey were 6 months i have talk n cried 2 dem all n its not gettin no better what we say go threw 1 ear n out da other 1 dont get me wrong i love my stepsons 2 DEALTH n would do ne thing 4 dem but when dey start running away from home cause dey cant stay outside till 12 r if dey daddy say he gonna tear dat azz up cause of der report card dey want to still run away n get da folks n our life cause u dont want ur butt whoop r dey think dey dont supose to get punish cause dey fight each other like dey dont no one another by breakin dey brother jaw n den want to buck @ me cause he throught he did something but i will knock him on his azz i dont want 2 leave my fam dats y im askin for help sum couslin 4 da boys,husband n myself so if u no a number r sumthing i would appreicate it cause its more lord nows its ALOT MORE I HAVE 2 Tell

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/05/2015

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Remove yourself from the situation. Tell their father to discipline them.

Are you really a step mom, or are you girlfriend, attempting to play stepmom? There is a difference, and if you're just GF, then its no surprise the boys won't listen.

Jodi - posted on 01/04/2015

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I agree with Michelle. I am very concerned that your reaction is that you feel physical violence towards them. This is not okay. You need to sit down with their father and work out some house rules that you both agree upon (which includes cleaning up after themselves and treating both you and your husband with respect), as well as some consequences if they can't follow the rules and guidelines. Their FATHER then needs to make these clear to the boys AND he needs to follow through with the consequences if needed.

Annie - posted on 01/04/2015

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LOL! i know how you feel sista! i have 2 step sons who don't know the difference from the floor to a trash can....slobs, disrespectful, and NOW stealing from me! the 13 year old anyway!

i have 1 girl who has her moments, but i am not afraid to shut her down, plus she's really a sweet little girl who for the most part does what she is told....
but the boys dad....he lets them get away with everything! ugh!
We just found a bunch of my stuff in the 13 year olds room... personal stuff from panties to lipstick! to computer stuff to cigarettes.

WTF
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Michelle - posted on 01/04/2015

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If you are feeling like that then you should remove yourself from the situation.
What does their Father do about it?
How long have you been with their Father?

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