Shanell - posted on 06/28/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )
So this is a long story...I have a 5 year old daughter, the year she was born I had been married but separated for 2 years, I ended up sleeping with my husband and another man around the time of conceiving. I didn't find out I was pregnant with her until I was about 20 weeks . When I found out me and my husband were trying to work it out but it was going down hill. I thought the baby was the other mans. so I left my husband and tried to work it out with the other man. The other man said he didn't care if she was his or not he wanted to take care of her. when I told my husband I thought the other man was the father he tried to make me lose the baby. he would hit me when he would see me he would take my son away for weeks at a time. I didn't want him to have anything to do with me or my new baby. when I had her they asked me if I was married I said no I wasn't . the other man signed the birth certificate and that's how its been. now I am trying to get a divorce and my soon to be ex husband says my daughter is his and I kind of believe it cause her and my son look exactly alike.i know that when I sign those papers there will be a big possibility that he will tell the judge that my daughter may be his.....the question is how much trouble can I be in? I don't want to lose my kids I want to have full custody of both of them that's why I am getting the divorce. He is a threat to me and I think my kids are better off with me....what should I do? hes never tried to get a dna test in the past 5 years she loves her dad that has been there for her since day 1 .