Carla De - posted on 01/03/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
Hello, I am new to this community and I am hoping to get others' insight on my situation.
I went through a nasty divorce with my daughters father one year ago. Our daughter has been attending the same daycare since she was 4 months old, and she is now three. Two months ago, I caught wind of the daycare owner not only dating but spending frequent time with my ex, spending nights over (with my daughter present), bathing my daughter at her dads house (my old home). I confronted my daycare provider about it and she confirmed that yes, they had a relationship. She stated that "it was not meant to happen", "they just went out one night and it has continued since then". She also said, "it was not a retaliation against you", "just something that happened".
I dropped my daughter off at daycare December 16th where I received a notice of termination for my daughters care to end on December 31st. With no reason given on the termination letter, she did not even has the decency to give it to me herself, instead she had her sister, who also works there, give to me.
I feel very inclined to send an email to her and the rest of the parents at Little Seeds of the events that have happened because I feel like she did not have my daughters best interest at heart. Not only is it completely immoral and unethical, I feel like her of all people would understand the confusion being set forth on my daughter, let alone the conflict of interest it is for me, my daughter, her father, and daycare.
I do t want to be nasty and retaliating, I only want it to be known how disappointed I have become with her actions and what heartache it has caused for me, thinking that she would have an unbiased approach in care for my daughters well-being and development.
I highly appreciate any and all thoughts to this matter.