divorce/child custody

Melissa - posted on 05/02/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My name is Melissa I'm 23 yrs old. Well this is my situation I got served with divorce/child custody because my husband found out I was doing a drug but yet himself was a dealer and would give me the drug he would sell and I guess he caught me cheating by being in the other guys vehicle .it all happened 2 days after my birthday and I was also a stay at home mom for 9 years before I forget to mention.but I have my reasons for doing what I was doing.my main point is this all happened in November and now were in may well ever since I got served I had to move to another city because my husband kicked. Me out and didn't want me back after I pleaded to being guilty and said sorry and now that I'm 2 hours away from my kids I can't see them and I'm now pregnant by someone else and I recently left him because being sober made me open my eyes and decided that he wasn't what I really wanted ...my husband has a lawyer and I don't which is really hard for me because so far he's winning is there anyone that's been or going through a similar situation as me ..I'm really going through a hard time im not really sure how to describe my situation

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Melissa - posted on 05/03/2014

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Yes i got a job since january and been working ever since but the stress is to much ive tried filling out some self help forms but there kinda hard and need to turn them in asap because if not then it goes to default judgement but the good thing is is that im staying away from drugs i would really hate to lose my kids over them..but im trying to save up for a car but I only get paid monthly and the bills stack up monthly its just really hard

Nicole - posted on 05/02/2014

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I really don't know what to say...Pray pray pray sweetie and get yourself together.This time away from your children you can get a job,place,car or whatever your lacking there of and when the time for court comes show the judge that you are very capable of taking care of your children even if it comes down to just having visitation rights for the moment its better then not seeing them at all...Just don't slip back into that drug world and end up losing your kids because "they dint want to be with you." just get yourself together for them.

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