Erin - posted on 10/29/2014 ( 10 moms have responded )
My soon to be ex husband has been calling himself "divorced" for 9 months. We have been separated a year. The divorce should be final the end of November. I still completely love him and have hoped and tried the last year to make amends. He says he has moved on. He recently told my 7 yr old daughter that "mommy and daddy don't love each other anymore"- which is a lie on my side. I tell her I still love daddy very much but daddy isn't going to live with us anymore. I also tell her that it's not because of anything she's done. She knows she can talk to me anytime about anything. Is it wrong for me to tell her the truth? I don't want to lie. I want her to know this is hurting me too and it's okay to feel hurt and cry. Am I doing the right things?