Sara - posted on 01/28/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )
My ex husband and I had been together for ten years. Two years into our relationship, before we were married, we had broken up for one month. I had sex with another man ( a close friend) one time. My ex husband and I had gotten back together. Three weeks later, I discover I was pregnant. My friend and I do the math and both agree that he wasn't his. I continue my relationship with my ex husband and we get married. I don't stay in contact with my friend.
Fast forward ten years I find my friend on MySpace. We talk and are thrilled that we find each other. He eventually posts a picture of his nephew. I almost fell over as he looked like my sons twin at the age of 4! I immediately call my friend and tell him! We are at a loss.
We have been trying to figure out what to do for three years. Both dad's have similar features so there has never been any questions. My ex husband is a very angry man. I know that if I tell him, he will not consider my sons feelings and will just disown him. My ex also pays child support and I would have to pay it back.
My friend and I want to make this all right, but we don't want to hurt my son.
Has anyone ever been in this situation?