Michelle - posted on 07/02/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
She will be 17 for the wedding. My fiancé said it is up to me. She does not live with us & wants to spend very little time with us. When she is around, her and I get along fine but she is disrespectful, rude and mean to her father - typical teenager. I want ladies I can rely on, who know me, who won't complain, who can fulfill their duties as part of my bridal party. Sadly, my future SD doesn't fit those. As much as I have grown to care for her... I can't trust her to be on time, to be reliable for bringing anything, to help plan, to keep the dress appropriate (she would make it more revealing), or to even WANT to be there (besides obligation). I also don't want to burden my girls with more expenses since she won't have money (as she has no desire to get a job thanks to her mother) and my fiancé and I are saving for the wedding and budgeting tightly. I want to include her because she is my fiancé's daughter. Help!