Sarah - posted on 07/13/2011 ( 6 moms have responded )
My son is 13 and has been raised by who I thought all along was his bio father until this past week. I had always wondered about one man in general but thought it would be best to put those thoughts in the back of my mind for everyone's sake involved..We recently connected and this gentleman saw my son's pictures, calls me and tells me there is no doubt in his mind this is his son...we have both agreed that it is best not to tell him but @ the same time I feel so guilty and I am scared that my son will hate me if he doesn't learn the truth until later in life, if then. Obviously, a dna test would be done before to confirm. Any suggestions, on to tell the truth or continue living life as we have always known it?