Do I send clothes for first week away?

Jane - posted on 08/30/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My ex-husband has got residential access for 5 nights & 6 days per month. He doesn't pay any CS & doesn't provide anything. Do I send clothes even though I know he will keep them?? What would be reasonable as I don't want to give him any ammunition to use against me in court?Thank you

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Michelle - posted on 08/30/2014

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I agree with Dove. Send clothes but make sure they aren't good ones. As long as they are clothes you don't mind staying there then it's no problem.
If he complains about what you send then let him know what size your child takes and that he can buy some for his place.

Dove - posted on 08/30/2014

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Yes, send clothes w/ your kids to wear. 5 nights/month isn't much and if he keeps the clothes then you will know they won't really need as much the next time they visit.

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