GENA - posted on 01/08/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )
I am dating a man that has no kids, i have two, girl is 18 & boy is 10. After a year he just met them and it was great. He has made it very clear that he does not want to be a father to them. He wants to wait a couple more years to get comfortable with the kids before taking our relationship to the next level. My question is, is waiting for him the right thing to do by my kids? i dont want to lose him and i dont want to lose my kids. He says he cant promise me anything but would like me to take a chance on him till we both are on the same page. He says he wants the same things i want. Im trying to be understanding since he has no kids, does not want any and has never been married, he has lived the bachlor life and im the first real serious relationship that he has fallen in love.....please help me. Do i stay and wait or do i move on to a family man. Ive never been truly in love till he came in my life.