Do you give you bf or husband a bedtime?

Stacy - posted on 07/10/2013 ( 12 moms have responded )

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We have 2 kids they are my kids but he treats them well as if It was his! We get up early for school and work am I wrong to give the bf a bedtime?

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Carrie - posted on 07/12/2013

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Yes it wrong. He's a grown man. He should be able to decide for himself when he goes to bed. That he he accepts you giving him a bedtime is kind of sad.

Sal - posted on 07/11/2013

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Yes... You make a time for your kids , you go when you need to but I
Assuming he's a grown man he can decide for him self

Jodi - posted on 07/10/2013

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Is this actually a serious question? Are you in a relationship with a minor?

Dove - posted on 07/10/2013

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Giving a grown man a bedtime..... are you delusional? If you know about how much sleep he needs to keep from being a pain in the butt you can suggest that the two of you go to bed around a certain time, but.... giving a grown man an actual BEDTIME reeks of control issues.... You aren't his Mommy.

Becky - posted on 07/10/2013

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These past posts have got to be a joke, right? I'm waiting for Betty White to pop out on my screen, or something, telling me jk!
If you are serious, then please, I mean this in the nicest way. You need to either read up on how relationships work, or you need to see a doctor. Your perception of what a relationship is, is very skewed.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 07/10/2013

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Lets just say totally...

But if you really want to be a controlling, verging on abusive, woman, go for it.

He won't put up with it for long, especially since you don't even live together.

Sounds like you have a bit of growing up to do...

Bethany - posted on 07/10/2013

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Wow that is not normal, how would you feel if he gave you a bedtime like the other 2 posts state he isn't a child

Amy - posted on 07/10/2013

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Unless you want to raise 3 kids yes it's wrong, your boyfriend is an adult treat him like one. If he wants to stay up all night he's old enough to understand the consequences and will pay the repercussions the next day.

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