Emilie - posted on 04/02/2010 ( 122 moms have responded )
My daughter is 3 1/2 years old. She has been potty trained for about 8 months now during the day. She still wets at night almost every night and still has ocasional accidents during the day, about once a week maybe. She is very scared when she wets. She will not tell me sometimes and I will go to check on her in her room or wherever she might be and her pants is wet. She will lie about it and say she didn't do it. When she wakes up in the morning and her pull up is wet she goes to the bathroom and takes it off her self then goes back to bed without telling me to get her another pull up. She always seems so scared. I am not mad at her, I just want to know so I can take care of her. I asked her father about how it is at his house and he says he spanks her when she wets in the day or at night. That makes me angry. He thinks If I spank her she will stop having accidents. I don't want him to spank her it is just making her scared. I told him not to spank her but he won't listen. We did spank out first child, but that was before I knew anything about parenting. The thing is, Is that my son did not wet the bed at her age and he was not having daytime accidents either, So my ex thinks that since it worked with our son that it will work with her also.