does having a baby will solve my problem with my husband?

User - posted on 09/12/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )

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I am not yet a mom but sure thing is in few more months i would like to have a baby. In my few months as a married woman, I've realized that I don't know my husband that much. I am having a difficulty dealing with his anger and he hardly forgive people even his I, his wife. would you think having a baby will solve this problem? thank you.

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Dove - posted on 09/12/2012

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Definitely not. Please do not plan to have a baby when you are having problems in your marriage. A baby CAN bring two people closer together, but a baby is also a lot of added stress and if your husband has anger issues.... you don't want a baby around that. I would also like to suggest that you seek counseling if at all possible to help YOU deal with this situation in the best way that you can. Good luck! :)

Sarah - posted on 09/12/2012

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NO! If you don't have a stable home now, bringing a baby into it won't make it any better, only worse.

Firebird - posted on 09/12/2012

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There's a good chance that a baby would just make it worse. They're stressful little things.

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Amy - posted on 09/13/2012

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I agree with Firebird there is a good chance, a really really really good chance that it will actually make things a lot worse! You mentioned he has anger management problems, just think of how he will react when you have a crying infant at 2 in the morning and you can't figure out how to make her stop.

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