Nadia - posted on 11/09/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
I'm a working mom and I work full time (9am-6pm). i leaves my 7 month son to my mother-in-law. she takes care of him, but I'm worried that he is starting to prefer my mother -in-law over me and is starting to think she is his mom. When I was home with him during my maternity leave, he smiled at me all the time and I was his favorite person in the world. Now I seem to be his last pick and it is breaking my heart. when i come home from work he doesnot want to come to me. He rarely will smile for me anymore and will smile for her instantly. Does he think my mother-in-law is his mother? I spend as much time as I can with him, but I have to work to support him. He is my world, but I'm worried I'm not his.
my mother is no more:( so i have to live in in-laws:( i live in bangladesh here daycare is not available. so only the way is to keep my son to my mother -in-laws:(. yesterday i saw that my mother-in-law kissing his leaps and says ammu(mom), i become so surprised, will she want that my son tell her mom:(. my mother-in-law all time kisses my son on leaps, i fell so upset. is that right?? please tell me.