Bonnie - posted on 09/09/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
I am not a mom yet, but when I came across this support group it seemed like a reall good group. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs now, 3 of which he has been disabled. He fell and broke his back leaving him with some nerve damage which hass caused certain areas of his lower body not working properly & has no feeling in certain areas. Our relationship is starting to suffer due to the lack of affection & intimacy. Sex is not a big concern for me, but he does not really put any effort into other stuff such as kissing, cuddling, or just holding my hand even. He tells me it is due to the fact he has no feeling down below, that it leaves him lacking the desire to do those things with me. I don't know what to do? If it's really true or if there is something more going on. If it is true then is there anything I can do to help with the situation. I love him & don't want to give up on our relationship, but am at a lose for what to do.