Miss - posted on 11/12/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
I'm 26 yrs of age, I'm 34 weeks pregnant. My baby's father dumped me when I told him I was pregnant. He told me he wasn't ready for a second child (he has a daughter with his ex wife). My son is due in a few weeks and it breaks my heart that he will not have a relationship with his father, or half sister for that matter. What hurts me the most is that he takes care of his daughter but wants nothing to do with my unborn child. He is now trying to work things out with his ex wife ( who cheated on him with his best friend). I want to forgive him for leaving me when I needed him the most but for the most part I want to forgive him for neglecting his responsibilities.
I'm finding it hard to forgive him and I do not want to be bitter for the sake of my son. He doesn't deserve it. Please help. Is the anyone who's been through similar experiences?