Lisa - posted on 03/16/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )
My sons grandma is dying. They are going to move her from the hospital to her home with hospice and she may pass on Monday. My fella wants to bring my 6 year old son to visit her.
I'm a bit unsure. I know my son would not want to see super sick and possible not even communiicating. But my boyfriend seems to think its a good idea.
Myself, when my Mom died, once she was done communicating and stuff, I didn't bring Vincent around. I think the healthy memories are a bit more important. Also, Vincent hasn't been particularly close to this Grandma, probably due to her ongoing health problems.
So I want to do the right thing by my son, and my boyfriend.