Mr - posted on 08/10/2015 ( 14 moms have responded )
Hello I am Mr Mom. I have four boys 11 year old stepson that lives with my wife and I, 7 year old twins of mine that visit on the weekends, and are 3 year old that lives with us. I am the stay at home dad trying to get disability. I respect that she works hard and makes all the money. She leaves at 6 am and comes home at 6 pm and goes to bed at 9 pm. That is three hours a day that my 11 year old stepson has his mother. She has made it very clear to him that he does not have to listen to me, not have to do any chores, and not eat the food I make and eat junk food with the $50 a month allowance that she gives him. Its summer time and I would love for him to get out of the house and play with other kids and play a sport or join a club but he just sits there watching other people play video games with the words fuck and shit being every other word. With him not having to listen to me and with her not being around I feel he just does not have a parent to teach him to be an adult. She says I am the stay at home one and have the time so I should do all the cleaning. Yes I have the time but its not the point. I see my future with this kid never leaving home or knowing how to doing anything for himself. The scariest thing is my sons look up to him and like to copy what he the big brother does. My sons help clean and do as I say but the oldest is telling the twins that he does not have to do as I say and that I feel like they are next. My three year old is now saying the words fuck and shit. My wife and I have talked about all of this but its like talking to a brick wall. She even prides herself by saying "I never listen to you" and I mean this literally. I love my wife and will never leave her but this shit is fucked!!!