ed of being mentally, emotionally and verbally abuse. I can't let my 3 year old see me going through this

Ty - posted on 10/20/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I'm tired of my childs father treating me like crap. It's has gotten to the point where I am so depressed. I can't let my daughter see me this way. He has drained everything out of me. I just can't take it. I feel like he is acting like he's a probation officer and needs to know my where abouts every second of the day. His family acts like he should have power over me to. They are all fake I hear them talk crap about me all the time and smile I my face. I just want to get away from all of them. He acts like he doesn't want to leave and live with his mother forever. The only reason I stayed is beause I'm not financially stable. I'm getting a car next year at the beginning of the year and I was planning on leaving. I'm working now I just need means of transportation. He won't take me anywhere and I have to beg. I've put up with this for five years! masking my feelings like everything was fine and dandy. I can't do it anymore it's breaking me down. I was thinking of taking my baby and moving out of state I would of course let him see her he just couldn't know where I lived. We would meet in a public place. I wanted to know if I did that could he make me move back to the state he lives in of he didn't want to travel to see his daughter? Of if I stayed in the same star but moves Atleast 2-3 hours away could he try to make me move closer?? Don't get me wrong he takes care of our daughter but treats me like crap.

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Ty - posted on 10/20/2014

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Thanks I'm gonna try to talk to a lawyer. By the way I live in CT. I don't even know how the laws work here. I know a lot of women are like CT is a mothers state so they will take the mothers side. I just want to be sure. I just don't want it to be hell on court i don't want the drama part of it.

Michelle - posted on 10/20/2014

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You would be better off getting advice from a lawyer in your area. The laws are different everywhere. Where I live he could take you to court and make you move back closer to him.
Good on you for realizing that you deserve to be treated better, it's a big step that you are taking. You just don't want it to backfire on you. Get proper advice and know your rights before leaving. That way you leave on your terms and there's not a lot he can do.

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