Emo?Goth?

Setsuna Mar - posted on 11/27/2014 ( 8 moms have responded )

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Autumn is really emo and goth and i looked through her diary and she wrote what her "friends" said to her.., they said she should kill herself and cut herself... she is always being deffiant and back talking. i dont like her for the way she is i dont like her true self... HELP PLEASE

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Dove - posted on 11/28/2014

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If her own mother doesn't accept her... nothing will ever get better. She NEEDS help... and she needs a mother that is willing to accept her and HELP her. Otherwise you might as well just give up and let someone else raise her... You have betrayed her trust. She needs to know that you did it because you love her and want what is best for her, but apparently you have given her no reason to believe that... because you've admitted as much to random strangers.

It's best to stop counseling because she was rude to her counselor?! Please... seek therapy yourself if that's what you think. Counselors are used to rude and unruly teens. That's what they are FOR.

If you can't or won't get your daughter the help she needs... I pray that someone in her life will.

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Rowan - posted on 11/30/2014

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Help her. Maybe try to ask if she's told anyone else yet?? A friend, a teacher?

Dove - posted on 11/28/2014

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Grow up and quit trolling. The long weekends and holidays are always when the bored little kids cram up this site w/ their pathetic immaturity.

And if by some miracle you aren't a troll... seek therapy immediately.

Setsuna Mar - posted on 11/28/2014

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But she loves her dad and were not together but she always wants to go to his house and everyonce in a while i let her and when she came back last time i went through her text messages and she said she misses him already and that makes me really mad

Setsuna Mar - posted on 11/28/2014

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were already in counsiling well were but shes so rude to her counseler i feel that it was best to stop... she knows what im up to and she knows i dont accept her... she says i betrayed her when i looked in her diary but i just wanted to understand her and it didnt work at all it only made thungs worse

Gena - posted on 11/28/2014

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I agree with Dove. And those friends are not friends! They could be a very bad influence on your daughter. Wich "friend" would tell another friend to kill and cut herself!?

Dove - posted on 11/27/2014

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Get her (and both of you) into counseling asap. If her 'friends' are telling her to kill herself... she needs help... and better friends... and you need to learn how to reach her.

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