SiMpLiCiTy - posted on 11/22/2013 ( 15 moms have responded )
I don't know how to make this simple, it's actually a long story. I've got the worlds worst sister in law and mother in law. I met my boyfriend 5 years ago bc his sister was sleeping with my sisters husband. The whole 5 years we have been together his mother and sister have done nothing but try and tear us apart. His sister has done more than enough damage to all of us, to the point of us staying away from absolutely all of them for the last year. Here's the deal, she's constantly bashing me on Facebook and spreading ridiculous lies and rumors and all the friends and family join in on every conversation. My kids can't even see their grandpa, who they adore more than anything bc she's got her moms head full of lies and everytime we take the kids to see them the mom tries to fight me and she's had her hands on me more times than I can count. His sister sends pictures of him and our kids to his ex wife, who has no business having any pictures of MY kids nor him. I don't even know how to put in words what this girl has done to me and my family, it's so heartbreaking and hurts so bad, so often. It has gotten to the point where she literally copies my every move. I started school to be a police officer, she couldn't stand that I had the spotlight, so she started school too, beauty school. I cut all my hair off, like Rihanna, super short on one side and a bit longer on the other, she told me my hair looked like crap then 3 months later she got the same haircut and dyed it the same color as mine. I wear glasses, I have to, can't see without them. She went and got her a pair of glasses too. We haven't spoken to her or his mother since June, other than her texting me out of nowhere, cussing me for all I was worth and making the comment about my hair bc she had seen us out town. She is constantly posting on Facebook that she is going to **** my world up the next time she sees me out town but we see her all the time and she never says anything, everytime we see her she makes another post about how her brother wouldn't even speak to her, but can you blame him? I don't know what else to do, I have blocked her on Facebook, but I'm having to block her and her friends and family every other day bc they keep making new profiles. I even went as far as deleting my own Facebook to get away from her but that still doesn't work, they just send some other family member to our house or drive by every weekend to see what I'm doing while her brother is at work. She posted online that she knew what I was doing behind his back, bc my sisters new man was here (with my sister who is currently staying with me) and his truck was in the driveway while ours wasn't bc my man was at work. This girl makes me feel like I'd rather be dead than deal with her and her family anymore. Somebody please tell me what to do, how to deal with this crazy, psycho, stalker??? I'm trying so hard to keep our kids away from that crazy family, he nor I want either of our girls to have a life like we had with all the fighting. We made the decision together to stay away when we made one last attempt to reconcile with them and his mother had her hands around my throat, after telling them if we couldn't fix it this time we would just keep our kids away for good. How do I just brush this crap off? How do I move on from them once and for all? We haven't spoken since June like I said, my daughter was in the hospital, very sick and his sister cared so much that she started a fight with me at the hospital then put more lies on Facebook. How do I heal from all they have done to my family. I don't have any friends bc of her lies, his entire family hates me, except for his mothers mom, bc she knows the truth. Help plssss... I tried to work it out for my kids sake, but they just wouldn't do that. His sister even went as far as having her 7 year old call me and tell me I was a whore. I will not subject my kids to these ppl and their ignorance, but how do I move on when it hurts so badly that my kids won't even know their family and knowing their all punishing us for her lies.