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To get the background for what's going on I'll say this... When I was 14 weeks pregnant my(now ex) left me, never told his fam or friends that I was pregnant. I ended up telling the family when my baby was a year old(for court & )child support. Since this family has bin in our lives it has bin a fight, full of guilt trips and excuses as to why my ex isn't being a good dad etc. Now, (not surprisingly) he went and had another secret baby, but supposedly he's changed and wants to be a good dad after 8 years. His new gf is causing drama trying to get ppl to talk to me etc. I am livid!!! Everyone is telling me I should give him YET another chance, but he does not txt, call nothing to show he's changed! I have said numerous times I do not want to be pressured into decisions, now they are trying to force me to talk to my ex by threatening court!! I'm so done being bullied by them and being made to feel guilty because him and his gf put his fam in the middle. Help please!!