Ex and his New Wife

Alisha - posted on 12/25/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )

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I need some advice me and my ex have a 4 year old son together we were together for 5 years off and on I broke up with him because of him being m.i.a half the time we were together so after I broke up with him he was in our sons life off an on for 3 years he saw him maybe 10 times within that time frame he found a women who's 8 years older then me and im 26 she has 2 kids an comes from a family with lots of money in April of this year I called to ask him if he could help with our son to join a soccer program he said only if he could bring him to her family's family night I said ok but he never gave me the money to help so we got into a fight an he took me to court I think because she didn't like me fighting with him so now we have split custody I became friends with her an everything because I wanted to know who my child was around 2 months before he got married he e-mailed me trying to sleep with him I didnt sleep with him but I would stop by just to talk to him like we used to he showed me his house an once again tried to sleep with me I didnt so over the summer our my son had a reading party that fell on his dads day I called to talk to him an let him know he can pick him up at 545 instead of 530 cause I wasnt sure when his program was gonna start since they had food as well so 545 came an he showed up I had no clue it started at 6 so he came in and I said it doesnt start till six i can drop him off at your house he said hold on an went to talk to her outside in the parking lot then they both came in an he said we have to go very rudely an my son started to cry and said why I said cause you have to go with your dad an his women thought I was being rude so she got in my face an called me all theses names infront of our son I ended up letting them go leave this event but I called the police they didnt take down her name they took down his only cause I wasnt sure of her last name I later took it to court the judge told me an his dad to have us knock it off when that was apart of the custody arrangement not to show anything like that infront of our child so we have another court date coming up this monday but I dunno what to do my ex wont talk to me anymore not even to drop off our son I wasnt allowed his phone number until a month ago when I finally hired my lawyer I was only allowed to e-mail him or she would be the one to text me If he talks to me longer then 5 mins she blows the horn ( he doesnt drive ) hes lying in court because I used to have an ex bf that I dated after him but he ended up being a pedofile I dumped him before that an now hes telling the judge I live with him WHEN I dont hes trying to change my sons religious ways when I rasied him for 3 years to believe one thing an his dad never believed in reloigon until her my son told me he gets lefted over her familys house whaile there not around i dunno what to do its stressfull when I cant even talk to him anymore not a single word idk what to do HELP

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