Michelle - posted on 02/15/2010
Its a tricky one so to keep things uncomplicated I would say no, an ex should be just that, an ex. Remaining friends will always keep a door open to you getting back together or causing problems when either of you find a new romance, shut the door and move on.
Donna - posted on 02/12/2010
i have been in the same situation and i have managed to stay friends though sometimes it isn't easy.... we both have gone our seperate ways and we have at times come back as a couple but again it didn't last we stay better friends then as a couple....
Tiffany - posted on 02/10/2010
Yes, I have and would. My first love was my best friend and we are great friends after all these years. The key is to take time away to make sure you are over them or you can end up in one of those back and forth relationships/love affairs that hurt just as much each time.
Gwendolyn - posted on 02/09/2010
The challenge with keeping former boyfriends in your picture is … it really is not fair to the man you ultimately decide to dedicate your heart / life to. Your new hubby will never be able to compete with the friendship that you shared with the ex because the ex will always have more history over him. It is a different story if the two of you have a child together. If that is the case then you should always be civil since you must raise a child together. Can you honestly move on without comparing everyone else you date to the former boyfriend if he is still an active part of the tapestry of your life? Think hard about why the two of you are not together. If you really love someone you want them to have the best out of life even if it is not you. Is he able to fully move on with you in the tapestry of his life? Oh let’s not even talk about friends with benefits LOL it happens to people who never plan it!!
Jessie - posted on 02/09/2010
I think you could be friends, but it would depend on why you broke up, how everything ended. Also, since you guys were in a relationship you might not be able to get back to that friend place if you were really serious and didn't just break up early on b/c you were better off as friends.
Gayla - posted on 02/09/2010
I am not married, my ex and I were supppose to get married. We broke up earlier last year and he came back when i moved on. I wasnt ready to do that and the guy got hurt in the process. I still love him but not in love because of the back and forth between us.
Heather - posted on 02/09/2010
depends on how bad things get. My ex husband was my best friend for 2 yrs before we got together. We were together 11 yrs al together- together 8, married 3. Have a son together. He was my first everything, including love. Now we can't get along no matter how much we try. Well I try all the time, only to get called all the names in the book. We will NEVER be freinds again, as sad as it is since we were soooo close before. I never thought it would end this way.
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