Leela - posted on 03/05/2014 ( 6 moms have responded )
Hi moms, need your advice. My ex and I coparent our 10 year old. We agreed years ago that we would not have a gf/ bf sleep over while our child is at either of our homes. I've abided by this rule. However my ex started dating a married woman with 3 kids last year. Her kids are young - 10 months, 9 and 11. She is now going through a divorce and there's a lot of drama which the kids (including mine) have been exposed to. My ex and I are fighting bitterly over this whole matter. I am not trying to control him or what happens at his home but I feel that 1. He is not living up to the agreement we made as co parents 2. He's not setting a good example for our child (which is why we made this agreement!) 3. They've been together only a couple of months and the kids are too deeply involved (my son broke down in January because his father wasn't spending any time with him alone). I'm tired and frustrated. Please help.