M - posted on 06/19/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )
My ex-husband got a girl pregnant he says by "accident" when we were 3months separated. He told me abt the pregnant girl when she was 9 1/2months pregnant, and at that time decided to move in with her, giving me and my son no time to adjust. During the divorce he did not tell anyone he had a pregnant girlfriend, pretending to be a "poor husband" that got kicked out of the house by his wife and having no where to live. He also provided documents stating he had debit and only made 14,000 a yr which was a big lie. We settled the divorce with him paying practicly no child support and no medical for my son. The child therapist took away visitation for the first six months after baby was born, saying my ex was not proper parenting and this could effect my son who has not emotionally recovered from an extremely contentious divorce. How do I now tell my son abt this new baby, his half brother, and the girlfriend without causing my son trauma?