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I emailed my ex last October, 2013 asking if he would be willing to swap a weekend with me for our daughter to travel to Jamaica for 1 week in July for my wedding. I provided him with the dates of our vacation. He is not losing a weekend with her, our weekends were only switched i.e. he will have to back to back weekends instead of every other weekend and vice versa. I also placed in the email that if he had any issues with my request to please let me know.
I received no response therefore, I assumed that he was OK with the switch (BTW we have swapped weekends on a number of occasions before). I then proceeded to plan my wedding as I sent out invites, guests bought their vacation packages. I have also purchased packages for myself and minor to travel. All of my wedding arrangements have been made.
I emailed my ex May 30 as a reminder of the swap. He responded on Jun 5 that our daughter cannot attend my wedding because it falls on his weekend.
I sent him my email 8 months ago asking if he was OK swapping weekend and to let me know if he had an issue with my request and he did not respond. Now he is not willing to provide me with travel documents for our daughter to leave the country.
Do you guys think that a judge will provide me with a court order allowing me to take my daughter to Jamaica for my wedding?
Thanks for your input!