Ex playing dirty

Janice - posted on 04/27/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




Just went to court ex said daughter was unsafe with me although in the last four years I have had my daughter her father has spent less than a year with her. Took me to court the judge decide he didn't prove his case and let me keep my daughter. Now I am not perfect I have made mistakes, when I turned 17 I was put on 10yrs probation have served 5 1/2 of those years. I made a mistake and went out of state without permission I was wrong to do that and was my fault, Being the sore loser that he is when he lost in court he called my po and told her about it and alot of other things that were not true. So now I pay by going to jail and lose my daughter at the same time. But the funny part of all of this is, He file income tax last year and said that my daughter and I lived with him the whole year. When only stayed with him 2 months he never sent money for his daughter my parents help support us. Not only that but he forged my name on the return. Now my question to you is should my mom amend her taxes and let him pay the price for his actions. Never wanted this to be ugly don't want my daughter hurt she is only 4. When she stayed with him 2 weeks ago he gave her a choice to live with him or his mother. She said she wanted to stay with her mommy she loved her mommy. He thinks I am being put away for a long time, but I will serve 90 days my heart is broke don't know what I am going to do without my little girl it has been just the two of us for 4 yrs.


Cecilia - posted on 04/28/2013




I think you need to remove emotions from all equations when dealing with him. emotions are things that lead us to make bad choices.

I think you knew about the tax return for awhile, so why are you choosing to go after him now for it? Because of what he did? Then you would be playing dirty and making you no better than him. Why get your mother involved in this also?? Why didn't your mother file for you then?

Never stoop down to another;s level, they will always beat you with experience.

If you want to be a good mommy you need to find a way to be a good example for her. This means sometimes being the one not to seek revenge. I'm assuming by what you said that she is at least 5 years old. She sees this war. Do not make your child choose sides, it is unfair to her to be in the middle of a fight.

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