Ex's new girlfriends bashing and slandering on social networking and verbally abusing my son and daughter, father wont listen

Alexandra - posted on 11/06/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I have been drained and so overwhelmed with what to do, my ex just defends her, as if it is ok... we have never spanked our children... I have never even raised my voice and now that the new girlfriend is in the picture that seems to be the new way of punishment with my children, its heartbreaking. the girlfriend and I actually used to be really close friends... this relationship seems to be out of spite, yes I left my marriage due to verbal abuse and being unhappy but she is trying to be a mother figure in public and a monster behind closed doors...

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Kelly - posted on 11/06/2012

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good on you hun you sound like you want what is best for your kids and a fantastic mum your ex sounds like a douchebag and i agree partying is not setting a good role model for the kids i dont know who this woman thinks she is i like to think.that one day karma will give her a much needed kick in the backside i think even if youre douche of a ec didnt get custody at all he wouldnt deserve his kids for acting that way dont get me wrong i believe every trial should be fair my honest opinion is that theyd be better off without him u seem grounded and to be doing right by youre kids i salute ya girl keep me updated hugs x

Alexandra - posted on 11/06/2012

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That's what I am in the process of doing now, both party all the time... which is none of my business but when my children are seeing this, what kind of example are they showing my children... that this is justified behavior for parents to do? it's appalling... she and I were friends through work and she hated my husband when I was married to him, always bad mouthed him. she had become homeless basically and went down a road of using and just partying constantly, so she saw a gold mine when he approached interest in her, btw my ex and I were close before she moved in with him... after that he was not even allowed to converse with me let alone talk to me... she is so spiteful and because we share kids together its as if she take her hatred and anger out on them, but in public acts like a super mom. people on the outside only see that, behind closed doors she is just a monster... and she knows it.. so does he. he just allows it.

Kelly - posted on 11/06/2012

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hey hun am so sorry youre having to go through this firstly youre former best friend is way out of line for verbally abusing youre son and daughter on networking sites or at all to be fair and also she cant be much of a best friend to be with youre x partner she sounds like a horrid person this is made harder because she is wi th youre x partner and the father of youre kids else it would be far easier to cut ties with her if you are concerned with the welfare of youre kids id suggest maybe speaking to a solicitor about supervised visits while they are with the dad a nd this woman x

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