Tiffany - posted on 06/30/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )
So, me and my fiance have been together for some time now, and when we first started dating he told me that he had a son and had been previously married. I had never before dated anyone that had been married before, let alone a child together. I however feel like im in over my head and im about to drown. The exs mom is the one that the child lives with. The whole time that ive been around (a year and a half) ive known the ex to get the child maybe five times. The kicker is, my fiance still talks to her on a regular basis! im more of a parent to their son than she is. Also she recently had another child last year. The surprise there is that my fiance thought that it may have been his at first. Thank God it wasnt, but the baby girls father isnt in the picture and that child stays with the exs mom too. however, my fiances family helps watch her!!!!!! its not even their family! i know theyre just trying to help out the exs mom but for crying out loud, and on top of that my fiance at one point asked me what i thought if he adopted the little girl that isnt even his!!! ive kept her plenty of times and shes a sweet little girl but a person with no ties to the family can only take so much about a previous wife..... And my fiance just seems to keep getting more and more distant. i'm at the end of my rope. but i have so much emotionally and financially invested into this relationship, i don't know that to do any longer.... any advice? helpppp me!