Cyrstal - posted on 04/30/2014 ( 7 moms have responded )
My fiance has and ex-wife, to which he has one child. They were married for a shorter time then I have been with him. (Not that, it matters). None the less, they have a child together (the reason they were married), and they have shared custody. From the moment I have stepped in the picture, it has been nothing but drama. She would give me evil looks and try to talk with my fiance just the two of them. At first I just laughed and gave her dirty looks back, and then she started becoming a problem, when she tried to bring MY children into her crazy drama. Now 5 years later, 2 of which I have been engaged, and I am wondering if it is even worth it. I feel like I have wasted 5 years of my life. 2nd relationship down the toliet. do I hold on or let go? I know she will never change, and the change has to come from my acceptance. But I don't know if I can accept that she will continue to disrupt my life, just cause she can.