EX WIFE WILL NOT LEAVE US ALONE TO HAPPY 😑

Anna - posted on 10/15/2016 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I'm so fed up ,my husbands ex wife will not leave us to get on with our life ,every so many weeks she's causing trouble ,always trying to come between us ,even though she left my husband for someone else and now has a daughter with her new partner ,she threatens me in the streets every chance she gets saying she's going to smash my face in ,she has 3 children with my husband who she stops from seeing them and blames me for it........ The list of things she does is endless I just wish it would end 😞

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Jodi - posted on 10/16/2016

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Court orders are court orders. Destroying them doesn't change your husband's rights. he can file that she is in contempt. He can either decide his kids are worth it or not. If he has evidence that she is denying him access to his children (and that he has ATTEMPTED to access them during his allocated visitation), he could go for full custody on the basis of parental alienation and could very well be successful. What she is doing is highly frowned up on courts.

Michelle - posted on 10/16/2016

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He should have persisted with it. He has as much right to see his children as she does but he has to fight for it. Everything she is doing is called parental alienation and it will go against her in court. Your husband needs to keep proof of what she is doing and go to court.

Anna - posted on 10/16/2016

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My husband a few years back went through the court thing with her but she thought it was just laughable to destroy letters from my husbands solicitor and then would send my husband tex messages saying you can keep wasting your money you chose her over your kids ,my husband decided not to go on with the court thing and for years now it's been a struggle one day he can see them and then he won't be aloud to see them ,but for some reason she blames me she tells the children I'm the wicked woman who stops their dad from seeing them ......and I've actually heard her shouting this in a shop whilst walking past me and my son.

Jodi - posted on 10/15/2016

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If she is stopping your husband from seeing his children then he needs to do something about it - like seeing a lawyer. I also agree that if she is harassing you, then you can get a restraining order to prevent that.

Michelle - posted on 10/15/2016

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You husband needs to go to court and get custody and visitation sorted out. That way she can't stop him from seeing his children. If there is a court order then he needs to have her in contempt.
In regards to the harassment of you, get a restraining order. There is no need for contact between you and her at all! That is only between the parents.

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