Exboyfriend wanting DNA test

Kayla - posted on 06/21/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )




In August 2008 I was dating a man, long story short I slept with an exboyfriend. September 9, 2008 I found out I was pregnant. I always beleived the man I was with is the father of my son who is now 2 years old. Recently the exboyfriend who I had cheated with has been in contact, we decided to try and become friends. A couple of days ago he mentioned that he wants a DNA test to prove he isnt my sons father. I am very shocked and I dont know how to react to this, he has known the man I am with as his father since before he was born. The man I am with doesnt like my ex and they dont get along so therefore he doesnt know he has been in contact with me. I cant tell him were were trying to be friends let alone that my ex wants a DNA test. I dont know what to do, I have mixed emotions and im scared out of my mind for what the future holds. I dont have friends to talk to, I mainly have acquitances, I dont get out much and when I do its to get groceries, go to work and to get my son from daycare. If someone could please give me some advice without criticizing me I would appreciate it. I know what I did was wrong and Im really not proud of it.


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Danielle - posted on 06/21/2011




I agree. I know the guy you're with doesn't know ya'll are speaking so I'd go about it as if he's pushed for it. (He kinda is) Do the DNA test and just take it from there. You're between a rock and a hard place. Hope it works out for you =)

Stifler's - posted on 06/21/2011




Do the DNA test. He is probably worried that you'll want backdated child support. I know a few guys who have had women wait 8 years and then decide to finally tell them they have a child and demand money for all the years they didn't pay.

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