faint line on pregnancy test

Sonja - posted on 08/31/2013 ( 20 moms have responded )

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Hi, I'm 25 yrs old n have a 6 yr old boy. I am now 7 full days late on my period. I had two days of spottn wasn't even red more like lighr brown n wasn't enough for pad n wasn't their everytime I whipped. It stopped almost 48 hours later n I have taken 4 pregnancy test 3 of which show a faint faint line n the 4th shows negative. Two with the faint line are almost naked to eye. I don't want to talk about it anymore to the would b father because he wants abortion n says he is not ready. I am not ready either but I don't believe in abortion I think it is wrong that's just my opinion. The baby didn't ask for that. Please help asap I don't know what to do

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Rebecca - posted on 09/01/2013

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My daughter just lost her first born due to health issues and would give anything to have her child so abortion is in my opinion a selfish thing. If your guy is man enough to lay down and make a baby I say too f-- ing bad for him. He made the baby and has to man up and be a dad. If he doesn't I was a single mom and I enjoyed my kids with or without their dad!

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Gena - posted on 09/03/2013

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Sonja i dont know why you gave them for adoption, maybe you were still young,no financial income,no one to help you,no chance of providing them with what they need etc. So why would they hate you for giving them a good start in life?When they are old enough they will understand that you are a GOOD mother, you put them befor yourself and gave them a chance in life!And that is great! .. You alone know what the right decision is.
As for your pregnancy now..you should have used birthcontrol if you didnt want to get pregnant.But for every body, we are all humans and we all make mistakes.I am not saying your baby is a mistake. Maybe it was a mistake to have unprotected sex but now it happend and you have to deal with it. I am sure you are a strong person after what you went through and you will make it! With or without the father!

Lana - posted on 09/03/2013

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Yea.. Any form of a line in the second box indicates pregnant. Don't waste your money on more tests.. I took 8. 3 faded and the rest positive. 2 were expired so I bought digital. PREGNANT. Accept it and go from there. You have plenty of time to pick out a suitable family for the child. Random adoption is NOT the answer. I'm sorry, but I find the risk of a child becoming an abused foster half past bone rattling.

Taylor - posted on 09/03/2013

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@Sonja- When Your Daughters Are Old Enough They Will Understand You Did What Was Best For Them. Bottom Line Is You Have A Serious Choice To Make... You Need To Remember That It's Not Necessarily What's Best For You... It's What's Best For The Baby. If Also Recommend You Get On Birth Control.

Sonja - posted on 09/03/2013

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I have done adoption before with my twin girls they are so happy and couldn't ask for better patents. But I can't mentally do it again I almost succeeded with suicide. My mom found me gurgling blue lips pale face. I can't do it but adoption is good but you just feel guilty. I am afraid my girls will hate me.

Taylor - posted on 09/03/2013

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If you are pregnant and you don't believe in abortion then possibly look into adoption!

There are many couples out there unable to have their own kids who are looking for babies to love.

I myself am adopted and if you can't support your baby or you're not ready to have baby.. giving your baby up to be placed is a responsible thing to do. There is no shame in it at all.You are giving your baby a better life than you are able to provide at this point in time.

If you would consider adoption I would recommend watching the television show 'I'm having their baby' on Oxygen. It's a show about women in ALL types of different situations who are thinking about giving their babies up for adoption..when the baby does finally arrive some women go through with the adoption and some don't. The show, I think would give you some insight on what you expect if you are thinking about this option!

Good luck!!
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Vivia - posted on 09/02/2013

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I took two pregnancy test after being 8 days late..the 2nd line was really faint and I am pregnant (11wks now). They say a 2nd line (even faint) is positive for pregnancy. I hope everything works out for you with or w/o the father. God Bless!!!

Bee - posted on 09/01/2013

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Wait another week and take a pregnancy test first thing in the morning, All my kids were faint lines lol. Also I went through the same thing with a guy telling me to get an abortion. I told him to kick rocks. I wouldn't give my son back for anything and 5 years later his "father" is still a scum bag. I hope you make it through this the right way. Don't let a boy define your life or your child. Good luck.

Sonja - posted on 09/01/2013

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I know I'm only 25 but I wonder if putting a kid though my life is selfish and wrong. I have twin girls that I did adoption with, who I love with all my heart. They are so happy and I couldn't ask for better patents. But I do not think I can go through mentally emotionaly or physically you know. I feel like I'm stuck, I know after this I'm not having anymore kids. And I want atleast one more. Any advice any at all honesty is a must. Please and thanku

Sonja - posted on 09/01/2013

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I told him this morning that abortion is not an option and that I will do this with or without him. God has something bigger in stores for us. But I also let this happen so I am going too do the best I can at taking care of another one. Thanku for all the support I'm truly glad I found this o feel like I'm not alone in this.

Rebecca - posted on 09/01/2013

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He sounds like a real selfish guy... I'd drop him like a hot potato if It were me! Who tells someone they don't want to use a condom and then expects them to murder their child as a form of birth control!!!!! WTF He's disgusting sorry to say... Not a good choice as a father figure, disregarding life so easily... Good luck to you i hope you make the right choice here ♥

Sonja - posted on 09/01/2013

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I can't change what's already happened but sometimes I think it would b best to leave but I love him n our children are so happy with things n I would feel guilty for taking that away. I just hope n pray he comes around. I'll leave this one to god. But either way abortion will not happen or adoption I will do this alone if I have to.

Amanda - posted on 09/01/2013

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Is this the kind of guy you really want to share your life and a child with??? His accusations and circular logic are maddening. And you asked if I ever had this happen to me... No. But that doesn't invalidate my answer.

Gena - posted on 09/01/2013

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Well he said whatevere happens happens..and now it happend.. He has to stand up and take responsibilty of his actions. Maybe it would be the time to move together,i would sit down and talk to him,maybe he will react differently.Just dont let him put you under pressure to do something you dont want(abortion). I wish you good luck and i hope all goes well.

Sonja - posted on 09/01/2013

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Because we haven't moved in together yet n we both have one kid already n their best friens that's actually how we met. He has extreme trust issues n feels as though no one can love him n so on. I tried having him use condom n he got mad n thought I had something that's why I wanted it. I put s patch on too prevent pregnancy scare n he got mad n said whatever happens happens so I took it off n here we are. I do not believe in abortion either its wrong n not justifiable at all their is always adoption but I will not go that route either

Gena - posted on 08/31/2013

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Did you both use protection? If not you can tell him that he should have used something if he is not ready yet. I dont believe in abortion and there is a reason for every little baby that is made. Why does your partner not feel ready yet?

Sonja - posted on 08/31/2013

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Thanku I am just soo scared of findn out because of the response of my partner. Have you ever had this happen

Amanda - posted on 08/31/2013

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The lines would be faint early on. You would test negative if you took consecutive tests and the hcg levels were not as concentrated in your urine. First morning pee is most likely to be accurate because of higher hcg concentrations. You could also have faint lines if you have a tubal pregnancy or another kind kf early failing pregnancy as the hcg levels would decline when the pregnancy fails. Spotting could be implantation bleeding, which happens when you become pregnant. Wait a week and retest. Be prepared for a positive with a much stronger line. Any line - no matter how faint - means pregnant except in very rare cases, as in when you're taking certain prescription meds. But your dr would have already alerted you to this when prescribing those meds, so I don't think that's going to be the case. I think you're pregnant...

Gena - posted on 08/31/2013

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Get a clearblue digital test it will say exactly if you are pregnant (wich i think you are cuz of the faint lines). good luck

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