falling out of love with husband

Kelly - posted on 08/27/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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I am a stay home for last 4years to 4yr old and 1 1/2yr old and have had postnatal depression the whole time. Now I feel like I'm falling out of love for their father or I already have :/
I'm not sure if I'm feeling like this because I'm severely depressed or I really have lost the love.
I am On medication seeing counsellors ect but nothing really helps depression. I have never enjoyed being a stay home Mum it's lonely n boring to me but unfortunately it's how things have turned out for us..it doesn't make it enjoyable when my kids don't sleep or eat n rebel against everything.... Am I just looking at blaming him coz my life isn't what I wanted it to be? Is the depression clouding everything for me? Will I ever get over depression n feel normal!?!?
the kids love their dad so I don't want to break my family up unless I know for sure but then how do I know? Being so distracted n full On with 2 boys n him working our lives are separate really.... I'm confused n over everything!! Just want to b happy

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Crystal - posted on 08/28/2013

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How much time do you get to spend with your husband alone? If the spark has faded have a date night where you can concentrate on each other. Do you get time for you? Not enough time for yourself can cause you to loose interest in almost everything. Loosing your true self can really mess with your head. I tried to be a stay at home mom but I about went nuts not being able to talk with adults. Once a month my husband and I drop off the kids at grandmas and spend time alone, weather we go out to dinner and a movie or just stay home and pretend that we don't have kids for the night, like we where when we were dating.You loved your husband once you just need to remember what it was that made you fall for him the first time. Does he know how you feel?

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