Family at wits end: Niece 31, still neglecting, verbally abusing her 3 children, CPS closed case last year.

May - posted on 04/06/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My niece hasn't changed at all, did good enough for CPS to close her case last year, only question she asked social worker was " when can she get her foodstamps back? ", Ashe lives with my sis, drags kids from one boyfriend to another, they all sleep over wherever she takes them, my sis has no control with her, my sis does cooking, washing their clothes, corrects the kids, try's to make them clean their rooms put their clothes away, but their mom is either asleep, or on cell phone, posted a vulgar video on FaceBook of her 2 boys doing a hand stand on their grandmothers fridge, hunching to a vulgar song, she thought it was funny, she curses her kids, doesn't make them mind, they have destroyed my sisters house, they have had candles and matches under their bed they have lit, burnt matches by my sisters propane tank, all while she is asleep or on her cell phone, all of this while sister is working, when she is talked to by any of us, even her GranMother, she gets pissed, and leaves for days with the kids, her new male friend is using her, like all the guys she hooks up with, they don't work, she works, but basically her mom supports her financially, she has pretty much wrecked all of our sanity, my sis is so tired, mentally-emotionally, her daughter, my niece verbally abuses her too, she says if CPS is called on her again, she will make sure none of us ever see her kids again, she will give them to Foster care. Can she do that?... She is one Brick shy of a load, if you know what I mean ? She even let her 8 yr old son ride by himself with this new guy 2 counties away to supposedly visit his sister, after we heard of him doing inappropriate things to another girls son.

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May - posted on 04/07/2015

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I agree, sis dearly loves her grankids, but as long as their mom is in the picture She has no control in her house, if their mom doesn't lift a finger, then how can her kids learn ?

May - posted on 04/07/2015

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Thank you for your reply, so appreciated, very much the safe zone for them, they would be here everyday with me if their mom would let them, but hasn't let them in weeks, so sad, she is a very selfish girl, kids suffer for whatever she wants, she comes first not her kids, so, so sad, heartbreaking. My sister found out one of her grandsons was bitten on the face by a dog, at one of the places she is staying at, 2 stitches, needless to say they missed Easter at their GGMothers.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/06/2015

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Well, unless your sister is willing to step up, call authorities, and kick her daughter out...not much you can do.

Report what needs to be reported, and make sure the kids understand that you are a 'safe zone'

Dove - posted on 04/06/2015

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At this point those kids may be better off in foster care. FAMILY can go through the steps to become a foster family... If the children are being neglected and abused... someone needs to step in for them. Your sister may need to get to the point that she kicks them all out of her house and reports the situation.

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