Melissa - posted on 07/15/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )
I got sick very sick a few years back & my sisters offered to take care of my son.I knew it was the right thing for him as I was unable to care for him in the super mom way I had before. Then I found out I was pregnant. I had not intended to get pregnant (and was using two forms of birth control) I could not get an abortion (I just knew that was not a choice for me). My family was angry my sisters where angry. After I had my son my health got a lot better. But I let him stay because I thought he was happy there. However once my health was better and my son wanted to come home to be with his momma & his baby brother I had to bring him home. I had talked to my twin sister about if she would help me by letting us stay with her until I could get our own place.Because we wanted my oldest son to stay in the same school he was in with his cousins. But if not then I would take him back to live with me & our parents.She said no she didn't want to help me, so I moved him back home with me. After that my sisters stopped speaking to me and to our parents which is braking their hearts. My oldest sent my dad a nasty letter filled with lies about me and how I'm a bad mom, but she has never said any of these things to me. Now she is about to have a new baby this has been going on for about a year. I miss my niece and nephews they wont let me speak to them. I continue to let them have monitored phone and mail correspondents with my oldest son, they don't want any thing to do with my youngest son. I just don't know what to do, it is KILLING our parents. My mother our mother feels dejected and sad, that she is going to have a new grandbaby that her own daughter wont let her share in this happy time.