Family in Turmoil

Melissa - posted on 08/28/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

22

9

2

I got sick very sick a few years back & my sisters offered to take care of my son.I knew it was the right thing for him as I was unable to care for him in the super mom way I had before. Then I found out I was pregnant. I had not intended to get pregnant (and was using two forms of birth control) I could not get an abortion (I just knew that was not a choice for me). My family was angry my sisters where angry. After I had my son my health got a lot better. But I let him stay because I thought he was happy there. However once my health was better and my son wanted to come home to be with his momma & his baby brother I had to bring him home. I had talked to my twin sister about if she would help me by letting us stay with her until I could get our own place.Because we wanted my oldest son to stay in the same school he was in with his cousins. But if not then I would take him back to live with me & our parents.She said no she didn't want to help me, so I moved him back home with me. After that my sisters stopped speaking to me and to our parents which is braking their hearts. My oldest sent my dad a nasty letter filled with lies about me and how I'm a bad mom, but she has never said any of these things to me. Now she is about to have a new baby this has been going on for about a year. I miss my niece and nephews they wont let me speak to them. I continue to let them have monitored phone and mail correspondents with my oldest son, they don't want any thing to do with my youngest son. I just don't know what to do, it is KILLING our parents. My mother our mother feels dejected and sad, that she is going to have a new grand baby that her own daughter wont let her share in this happy time.



Update she had the baby, didn't even bother to call our mom. I so mad! Mom has been crying off and on all day, this is her first grand baby she hasn't been there for or at least the with in the first few hours of birth. I still in shock that she would do this. It might not be fixable. I really don't know if all the kings horses and all the kings men and God and all his angles be able to out this family back together again!

2 Comments

View replies by

Melissa - posted on 09/22/2012

22

9

2

a family meeting wouldn't work we live in different states and they wont even answer our phone calls.

Chaya - posted on 08/28/2012

737

0

229

You could call a family meeting to confront these issues, if your sisiters are willing to come to it, if not, just tell your parents the truth about what your sisters are telling them

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms