Melissa - posted on 09/16/2011 ( 27 moms have responded )
I really dont have anyone to really talk to for advice so il post it and see who answers!
Im married and have a 4 year old son. i use to live in Philly area all my life until i met my husband who lives close to pittsburgh, so i move out here when i was young and been living out here for 6 years. I have no family or friends out here except my grandparents who we live with, and my husbands family are very rude, his mother never comes and see our son ( her grandson) and she works right across the street, but she takes care of her two other grandson, ( my husband sisters kids) there ages are 5 and 3years old. It bothers me so much and my husband does not want to hear it. His dad is the same way, and grandmother. Lately i feel like they all dont like me, no one talks to me ever, i cant work right now because i have a chronic lower back pain, spondylothesis and scoliois, and they dont believe me, they told me that i should get a job and that. Ive been so stressed over a lot and i just dont know what to do anymore. My husband just started working so i dont see him too much and when i do he just lays on the couch or bed and watches tv all day, he hardly helps me with stuff, and my grandparents hardly dont do anything at the house either, so i am the only one who cooks and cleans and very exhausted towards the night. we have one car and my grandparents dont drive, we have to take them everywhere and it gets very hard, they have a old truck but wont get it fixed and my grandfather wont re take his test for license so they rely on us. I'm thankful they gave us a place to stay when my husband lost his job, but its been getting so tough and ive been so annoyed by the way they act and the way they take care of thereselves. They alway blame me for moving out here, but i never told them to move they decided to because the rent is cheaper out where we live and they probably wanted to live where i was so i could do everything for them like i do now. But its been stressing me so much i really dont know what to do about everything?