Ashley - posted on 09/12/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )
my son is 1 and his sperm donar only tries to contact us when his girlfriend and youngest son are fighting. in ohio if your not married the mother has sole legal custody. he did not sign the birth certificate but paternity was determined and he pays the minimum for child support (which im willing to give up) however my sons sperm donar just was arrested for hitting his girlfriend in front of their son, he drinks does drugs made threats, and makes no attempt to see my son. my son doesnt know him whatsoever and after the domestic violence im afraid for him to be around me or my son. does anyone know if i have to take him to court or should i just not allow him to see my son untill he takes me to court? he is just a horrible influence and i dont want my son around that he deserves better.