father does not support he gives excuses

Lilly - posted on 09/08/2016 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I was pregnant with my son so my father of the baby said he will help support but he told my family so many lies he has and my family do not trust him at all but now my sin is going to preschool so I asked him if he will help me with his uniform all he tells me is that I DO NOT have money if you want me to give you money please go and talk to my grandfather before coming to me asking for money and he told he asks me what I want from him which broke my heart so much I really don't know what to do when my son grows what will I tell him.He gives so many excuses I'm breaking my back for my son I love him.Please Moms help me with advice

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Jodi - posted on 09/08/2016

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Have you filed for child support? Where do you live? It sounds like your culture may be very different.

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Ev - posted on 09/09/2016

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You need to file for child support, custody, and so forth via your area's laws. Just because he says he has no money does not mean he does not. He is trying to get out of taking care of his child and the responsiblities that go with it.

Lilly - posted on 09/09/2016

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@JODI I stay in Harare but I did not apply for child support because the father said he had no money my lawyers advised me not to waste money.He gives empty promises.My culture is different but he believes his white he threatened to take my son away from me.

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