Gina - posted on 09/11/2016 ( 10 moms have responded )
How do I deal with my daughter father who is in well been in jail since she was in jail since she was born got out arrested again now serving 12 years federal jail. I have taking her to visit an at one point will mail pictures off at least once a month an keep him in the loop an he calls her from time to time but to be honest he is so disrespectful verbally abusive. I stopped all contact at one point even got my number change but his mom gave it to him. Since then he calls whenever not consistent when he calls he says it's my fault out now 10 year old don't want to kick it with him or last time his mom took her to visit he got mad cause I didn't come an was going off on me so I pretty much ignore him since then he has some how got a cell phone yes in jail an text me I'm like she is in school I'm at work so call back we have nothing to talk about then he says it's my fault an I'm mad because he cheated had a baby an such to be honest I never bring up anything old my daughter don't know why he in jail she do t know why we not together I never say anything bad because we don't even think about him an at one point in a weekly basis I use to tell her draw something or write but I been stopped that I figure if she wanna talk see him she will let me know. Am I wrong I ain't dealing with that crap an he send this long text I don't even replay cause he wants me to text back for some kind of attention I'm sure he gets no visit as he is 6 hrs away an he need something but since she was born I have gotten full custody an gotten married an have other kids I wanna be fair but like I told him it's not my fault you in jail an my daughter if an when she ask I'll make sure he see her not me but my daughter ain't got time to sit in a jail visit 7 hrs then the drive is 6 eap on a weekend that I'm off heck no.