Casey - posted on 05/13/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
please help!! my father in law just cant help himself.hes always trying to undermine me and discapline my children before i even get the chance to.i have told him 1000 times over and over again.i got it under control,back off,let me do my job as his mother and.recently we had a blow up becuase he gave my children money when ive said before NO MONEY and he gave them all different amounts.therefore they all started arguing why he got more and i didnt.i cant handle it anymore.im trying to teach my boys you have to earn money,its not just handed over in life.i swear hes buying their love cause they hate how he yells at them all the time but like his money.im at the point im going to tell him shut your mouth or you lose all your grandkids and son!! my husband always leaves it up to me to stick up for my kids.he cant stand up to his dad for some reason and that is putting strain on our marrige.i have a 10yr old whos hitting puberty early, and autistic 8 yr old and a 3 yr old toddler!!! and there all boys so there is going to be fights and tears but he thinks it has to be rainbows and fairy dust ,children cant cry.geez he irratates me so.he has no idea what i go through everyday and hes making it worse trying to tell me i'm not a good enough parent!!! im getting upset now,i'll stop. some advise would be appreciated.thanx.