DCMom - posted on 12/12/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )
I am 30 weeks pregnant and very excited. This pregnancy has been stress free, mostly due to the fact that I decided to do it alone. I broke up with the child's father 4 months ago and have not contacted him, he hasn't either. I had a restraining order on him, which is now voided, but I am still not in contact. We are expecting a son and I would like for him to know his father, but I want nothing to do with him. Should I contact him? I was thinking of just waiting until the baby is born and to just send pictures, nothing more. And to keep him updated via pictures. But, now I am wondering if I should make contact now or no? And if I should, what do I even say? I don't mind him being updated on the baby's well being now, but I don't want any negative feedback from him at all. What should I do?